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Simplify your Life with Kids? 3 Common Mistakes

We all have the best of intentions when trying to simplify. We want to clear our minds, our homes, and our drawers of all the junk. Come on in minimalism, and help me parent! The truth is, though, that it’s really common to make some simple mistakes when trying to simplify your life with littles.

Purging Everything

It happened. You stepped on a Lego and start screaming about “getting rid of every toy in this house.” We’ve been there. We’ve done it. We’re embarrassed too. The fact is, that you don’t have to purge everything to simplify your life. Instead, take it easy and take it slow. Start with one toy bin. Every weekend, pick 3 bins to go through and sort the items into 3 categories; Keep Out, Store Away, and Donate. Rotate through your toys/games/books instead of leaving all toys accessible. By rotating your toys, your little ones will actually play more creatively with the toys on the shelf.

If you purge everything too quickly, it’s more likely that you’ll end up purchasing items to replace. Donate the items that your little ones have grown out of and store away things that they may still use. Bring these items out on playdates or days off of school. If they still aren’t used, then it’s a good time to donate!

Hours of Research

You want to get started, but you have no idea where to start. Of course, you reach for your phone and google “How do I simplify my life with kids?” 3 hours later, your little one is awake from his nap and your head is spinning with ideas. Repeat after me – start small. You don’t need to have a whole plan in place when you begin simplifying. We live in a world where it has to look ‘perfect’ or it isn’t complete. This isn’t true!

Instead of scrolling for the perfect solutions, just get started. If you have a toddler, put away the soft infant toys. Once you have a preschooler, you can safely put away the activity table that she no longer sits in. Let your little one be part of the process and just get started. You’ll thank us later!

Organization Overload

We’ve all seen the accounts on Instagram. The perfectly organized playroom or color-coded drawers. Yes, I binged the whole season of The Home Edit immediately after it was released. I spent weeks (ok… months) trying to find the perfect storage bins for our play area and the perfect organizational tools for my kitchen. As I got started organizing these spaces, I realized that while the containers were great for my space, they weren’t great for my brain. Take a step back and think about what actually makes sense for your daily needs. Do snacks need to be easily accessible? Should certain toys be stored out of sight?

I realized pretty quickly that having the right items accessible for my kids simplified a great deal of my life. Even something as simple as putting my toddlers’ socks in the bottom dresser drawer, so they could pick out socks (a daily struggle with my twins) changed our mornings. Work smarter, not harder!

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Teaching Littles About Diversity

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While we live in a very diverse world, teaching our children about diversity can feel daunting. How do you even begin to explain differences in skin, race, ability, family, and more? And should you? (Spoiler alert: You should!) Our differences are what make us human. By exposing your child to diversity — both in concept and in person — you will be raising children who embrace those differences rather than turn away from them in their adult life.

Read Diverse Books

The easiest way to expose your child to diversity is through books. This is especially handy if you live in an area that lacks in overall diversity. By reading a wide and varied library to your toddler, you can show them that people and families may look different but are all valued. Be sure to include books that feature children who don’t look like your child as the main character.

Some great suggestions include:

Everywhere Babies by Susan Meyers — not only does this book depict a wide range of diverse people, it also includes a variety of ways to become a family, including adoption, single parents, LGBT families, and even grandparents raising children.
Kindness Makes Us Strong by Sophie Beer — The colorful illustrations and simple message of this book make it a great early pick for introducing the concepts of diversity and kindness.
All Kids Are Good Kids by Judy Carey Nevin — This book reinforces the concept that while we may all be different, we’re all good.
Girls Like Me by Valerie Thompkins — Not only does this book center a diverse main character, but the message of the book introduces our youngest readers to a variety of careers they can choose. It’s a great conversation starter in many regards. This book has paper pages.

Encourage Curiosity and Critical Thinking

Children notice differences in people. Toddlers especially haven’t yet been conditioned to filter their thoughts, observations, or questions in public. They may ask questions that make you feel uncomfortable. Examples include questions about skin color, disabilities, or family makeup. Instead of shushing your curious toddler and making them feel like the subject is taboo, encourage curiosity by responding positively. Follow up with questions to continue the conversation.

As an example, your child might ask why someone is in a wheelchair. Follow up with a question about how your toddler moves through the room. Ask them what they think a wheelchair might help that individual accomplish. Point out your eyeglasses and ask if they can think of anything else that might help someone through their day. Asking more questions and connecting topics to ones they might already understand expands their critical thinking skills. Allow for recognition and discussion of differences without making it feel like your child is wrong for wanting to know more. Becoming comfortable yourself talking about these topics will help your child become more comfortable as well.

Embody Kindness

Your toddler will soak up not just every word you say but every action you do. If you tell your child that people with differences are just as good as we are, but you speak or act unkindly toward someone who appears differently, they’ll recognize the dissonance even at a young age. Practicing kindness at the grocery store, daycare drop-off line, and at playgroup will encourage your child to do the same.

Expose Them to Diversity

Again, if you live in an area where diversity is lacking, the onus will be on you to step out of your comfort zone. Do you live within driving distance of an area that does offer a more diverse population? Can you go there every so often to shop, eat lunch, or play at a different playground? Additionally, can you attend a library class there? Or even mommy and me music class in that location rather than in your hometown? Exposure to the arts via age-appropriate live theater and dance is another way to welcome diverse people into your life. But it starts with you actively seeking out ways to incorporate diversity into your lives.

Books and Bedtime for Baby

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You’ve spent the day engaging your little one in play, feeding him, and attending to his needs. Now it’s time to wind down and get ready for bed. Creating a routine with a bath, a comfy sleeper and reading provides you both with lasting memories and soothing moments. But where to start?

We’ve got you covered with a list of books and some other great sleep routine options.

Bedtime Books for Baby

Workman Publishing – Bedtime Board Books Set by Sandra Boynton – $23.85

No bedtime books for babies list would be complete without at least one pick from Sandra Boynton. Why not three? Dinosnores, Jungle Night, and Pajama Time will delight your little one for years to come. As your baby becomes a toddler, you can sing, “Jama, jama, jama, PJ,” as they work on dressing themselves in their pajamas. For now, you can create a soothing but fun routine that will help lull your little one to sleep. You may also want to grab our other three-pack of Boynton books solely for Snuggle Puppy, because what says bedtime more than snuggling?

Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown – $14.99

Goodnight Moon is a children’s classic for a reason: Children and parents alike have loved it for years. The rhythm of the words combined with the illustrations will soothe your baby. The book also grows with your little one as you can ask them to say goodnight to things in their room. You can start that with them as babies by pointing out things after you read the book together. It will become a beloved routine for years to come.

The Goodnight Train by June Sobel and Laura Huliska-Beith – $7.99

The Goodnight Train features illustrations and beautiful word imagery that will please both you and baby. You could look at all of the artwork on each page for endless hours. Your little one will enjoy the words and sounds as you create your own rock-a, rock-a rhythm.

Goodnight, I Love You by Caroline Jayne Church – $7.99

Goodnight, I Love You falls on the shorter side of bedtime storybooks—which you sometimes need! Maybe your little one is five seconds from falling asleep, but you don’t want to fall out of your beloved routine. Maybe you have some work to get done after bedtime. Whatever the case, this short book about bedtime routines and love fits in as a last read in a longer routine or a quick pre-nap read. Either way, you’ll both love it.

Llama Llama Nighty-Night by Anna Dewdney – $7.99

Last but not least, Llama Llama Nighty-Night might be the perfect introduction into the world of Llama Llama for your little llama. It focuses on bedtime routine offering a great way to teach your little listener about the steps to get ready for bed. Add in a stuffed llama from Melange Collection and you’ll be sending yours off to dreamland with ease.

Bedtime Routine Helpers

Earth Mama Organics Calming Lavender Baby Lotion ($18.99) and Body Wash ($9.99)

If you’re using an evening bath as part of your baby’s routine, you’ll want to check out Earth Mama Organics. Lather and massage the Calming Lavender Castile Baby Wash into their skin during bath time. After bath, use the Calming Lavender Baby Lotion to relax your little one, adding in some Baby Face nose & cheek balm for any dry skin spots. Your baby will associate these steps with relaxation and winding down for the night. Then you can get dressed in something comfy (that’s next!), read, and head to bed with ease.

Love to Dream Swaddle UP – $29.95

As for bedtime clothing that’s comfortable for baby, you’ll want to get a Love to Dream Swaddle UP. This is not a typical, conventional swaddle. It does not keep baby’s arms down along the side or crossed over the chest, as with traditional swaddling. Instead, it has “wings”, allowing baby to sleep in a more natural Arms UP position. The snug fit and Arms UP positioning help relax baby’s startle reflex, and encourages babies to self-soothe by giving them this access to their hands. Self-soothing means more sleep.

Mookabee Baby Swaddle Bundle – $52.99

Some babies might prefer a slightly more fitted swaddle. Go with the Mookabee Baby Swaddle if that’s the case. It will keep your little one snug and secure while also offering zippered access for night time diaper changes. That’s a game changer!

When you read these baby bedtime books and employ a routine with your little one, you should both enjoy your evening time together.

Check out more bedtime posts:
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25 Gift Ideas for a 2-Year-Old

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So, your favorite toddler turns two in a couple of weeks. What do you get for them? We’ve got a list of 25 gift ideas that will appease the tastes of all different kinds of kiddos. Whether you have a 2-year-old who loves imagination play, one who loves to dress up, or a quiet reader, you’ll find a suggestion that will make their day.

Toy Gift Ideas

Melange Collection Elephant in Sweater, Blue – $40.00

Every child needs a beloved stuffie. This elephant brings whimsy and fun to all of your kid’s play. As an added bonus, Melange Collection works closely with organizations dedicated to empowering women through income generating projects. You can feel good about giving this gift (or any of the other cute options, like a fox, bunny, dog, and more).

Mouse Loves Pig Portable Car Carrier – $39.99

For the all-things-that-go lover, this portable play mat will carry a variety of cars and gives them a place to use their imagination and play. This is perfect for trips and outings to keep your toddler entertained.

Babymoov Indoor & Outdoor Tipi – $59.99

25 gift ideas: Babymoov Indoor Outdoor Tipi

This cute tent gives your child a safe, imagination-rich place to play, indoors or out. Our favorite part about this teepee, in addition to quick setup, is that it offers your toddler sun protection with anti-UV UPF50+ material. Set it up in the back yard, at the park, at the beach, or in your living room.

Plan Toys Doctor Set – $30

Is your little one always taking care of everyone? Do you want to nurture their spirit while encouraging more imagination play? Get them this doctor’s set from Plan Toys! Maybe you’ll inspire them to become a doctor when they’re grown. (Note: If they’re fascinated by teeth, the dentist set is also a fun option.)

Mouse Loves Pig Hand Kite Set – $54

Get moving and grooving with this set of six hand kites in red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and purple. You’ll inspire hours of imaginative play while also helping improve their gross motor skills. Win-win!

TROJOY Stacking Dinosaurs – $15.99

If you have a budding paleontologist, these stacking dinosaurs will provide lots of joy and hours of fun. As an added bonus, you’ll help solidify their knowledge of colors while they teach you about everything from the ankylosaurus to the triceratops.

SEREED Baby Balance Bike – $52.99

Recommended for ages 12-36 months, this baby balance bike will get them wheeling around in no time flat. You’ll help them develop balance skills and get them ready for their first pedal bike.

Clothing Gift Ideas

Clover Baby & Kids Monstera Short Set – $30

Whether they’re going to wear these to bed to dream of running through luscious monsteras or to play around the house, hiding behind their parents’ gorgeous plants, these comfy clothes will sure be a hit for parents and kids alike.

Gabri Isle Bunny Sweatshirt – $38.00

Hoodies with ears are always a hit. This bunny ear sweatshirt from Gabri Isle is the cutest thing. Ever.

Squid Socks Camping Edition – $24.00

Well, these are the cutest socks for your summer adventures. They feature woodland creatures, camping accessories, and some creepy crawlies. These socks have silicone dots at the cuff to keep them in place as well as grippers on the bottom to keep little feet from sliding on the floor.

Custom Hand-Dyed Pullover Hoodie – $36.00

Make sure they’re rocking the biggest trend of the last year: tie dye! You can pick your primary color and set them up in the latest trend.

Pull-On Rainboots, Cat & Jack – $19.99

If you give a two-year-old a pair of rain boots, you’re gonna have to ooh and ahh over them as they’ll be sure to show you their boots over and over and over again. That’s okay when it’s these tiger cuties from Cat & Jack at Target.

Corduroy Overalls from H&M – $29.99

Hit both the neutral color palate trend as well as the texture one with these corduroy overalls. They’ll be stylin’ more than you, and that’s a-okay.

Stripe 5 Panel Trucker Hat – $38.00

But imagine this hat paired with the corduroy overalls and a black long-sleeved t-shirt. Seriously. Toddlers today have all the fashion luck.

Unisex Stretch Jean Jacket – $22.00

This stretch denim jacket fits comfortably while looking uber-cool. It also comes in a light wash to mix up the look a bit.

Distressed Toddler Jeans – $14.99-19.99

Not only are these the cutest things ever, but they’re comfortable due to that elastic waistband. Whether you’re still changing diapers or working on potty training, easy on and off pants are key, even if they’re Cool Pants.

Training In Unders Organic Cotton 5 Pack – $35.00

Whether they’re ready right this second or have no clue about the potty just yet, some absorbent training pants are good to have on hand at this point. There’s also a five pack with cats, unicorns, and more if that’s their thing.

Gear Gift Ideas

Larktale caravan Stroller/Wagon – $449

Need a little more room now that your two-year-old takes up more space? The Larktale caravan Stroller/Wagon has room enough for two, perfect for playdates and more. They’ll be rolling in style. (PS: It has a really awesome rain and wind cover that you can buy to keep your little riders dry.)

CamelBak Eddy 14oz – $13.99

Since toddlers are always on the go, it can be hard to keep them hydrated. Make it feel fun by giving them their own water bottle like yours.

Bodhi Toddler Standard Bed by Karla Dubois – $239

Upgrade their bedroom from nursery to toddler by replacing their crib with a toddler bed. This one from Karla Dubois is modern and unique, allowing you to do so much with their newly redesigned space. While the bed comes in six colors, this neutral Pebble would suit any room.

Book Gift Ideas

Ekaterina Trukhan 5-Book Set from Workman Publishing – $29.75

These books from Workman Publishing are printed on an indestructible paper-like material. Your little reader won’t be able to rip, tear, or puncture the pages. This set lets them learn about numbers, colors, shapes, and more.

Families Can by Dan Saks – $7.99

The main idea of this 2021 book is that “a family is love no matter how it looks.” This important message is aimed at our youngest readers in this beautifully illustrated book. Additionally, Dan Saks has a number of other great books for this age group, including Families Belong and Families Grow.

Mrs. Peanuckle’s Hiking Alphabet – $7.99

If you’re a hiking family, already traipsing through wooden trails with your toddler strapped to your back, this is an alphabet book you simply must add to your library. “A is for Air; C is for Compass,” and so on. Teach your kiddo to speak your outdoor language now!

Nerdy Babies: Dinosaurs by Emmy Kastner – $7.99

Next up, we have the newest book in the Nerdy Babies series explores all things dino. They’ll learn about shapes, sizes, and yes, dinosaurs in the Mesozoic Era.

Maddie Frost Collection from Workman Publishing – $35.70

Another set of indestructible books rounds out our list. This one includes six books from Maddie Frost and brings three nursery rhymes and three explore-your-world type books to your library. They’re sure to be a hit.

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Well, there you have it. 25 gift ideas for 2-year-olds that are sure to bring a smile to your favorite toddler’s face. Be sure to let us know which items were a hit!

Check out some of our favorite gift guides:
Ultimate Gift Guide: Ages 0-2
Ultimate Gift Guide: Ages 2-5
Reima Baby Kit: The All-in-One Baby Gift
Work from Home Gift Guide

Best Baby Books to Check Out for Your Registry

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Did you know that you can (and should) read to baby from Day 1? There are so many benefits to reading with your little one from bonding, to inspiring a love of learning and obviously teaching your child about concepts like shapes, numbers, colors and more. Reading will serve as the foundation for your baby’s communication. Lately, we’ve been asked a lot about the best baby books to check out for your registry. Here, we’ve rounded up some tried-and-true best baby books – a list of favorites for the infancy stage from the team here at Gugu Guru.

Black & White by Tana Hoban In the early stages of infancy, babies are not able to see colors. Hoban’s books for children, especially her black & white series, are known and loved throughout the world as the best baby books. These books may be simple enough, but Tana’s photography is nothing short of sophisticated, with her work being exhibited at museums and galleries like the MOMA in New York.

First 100 Words The title of this book pretty much sums it up. You and your little one can practice and learn some essential first words and pictures with this bright board book that is softly padded for little hands.

Manhattan Toy Wimmer-Ferguson See and Say Board Book Another high contrast, black & white developmental favorite book for your babe. As a bonus, this book comes features a baby-safe mirror for self-discovery.

Taf Toys 3 In 1 Soft Baby Book This soft baby book pretty much has it all – high contrast black & white side and a colorful side. What’s more is that this book also doubles as a developmental toy with crinkling sound effect features and a mirror, among other things.

Manhattan Toy Where’s The Bone?
We shouldn’t play favorites but we really do love this soft activity book with a tethered toy. This adorable book offers your little unique pages of colorful and tactile fabrics. Plus, the velcro-like closure and loop attachment make it a perfect travel time toy.

Product Discovery: Echo Art Bindery Books

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When the Gugu Guru team came across the gorgeous books from Echo Art Bindery, we knew we had to share them with you all. Those early days of baby life can be such a haze and even though we try to remember all the special and sweet memories, we’re often so tired and too overwhelmed to write all those special memories down – but, with the gorgeous books from Echo Art Bindery, you’re not only going to have a special place to record all the memories, but want to take the time to sit down and savor writing all of your precious memories.

Echo Art Bindery was founded by a mom and entrepreneur, Deborah Thomson; Deborah, a bookbinder and paper marbler, has been selling books since 1996. Her exquisite work has led her to selling wholesale to places like Papyrus, Kate’s Paperie, and Sam Flax, however, it was upon the birth of her second daughter that she decided to try her hand at baby books. She couldn’t find a baby book which fit all of her needs, so she set about crafting one of her own.

Each page of the Echo Art Bindery’s Baby Books is filled with amazingly adorable illustrations to help you remember your journey with your child; starting from the earliest memories of your baby, all the way through toddler hood and preschool years, your Echo Art Bindery Baby Book will become a family heirloom full of total joy and love.

Each page of the Echo Art Bindery’s Baby Book is made from thick paper, which makes writing super comfortable and easy. We love all the introspective and sweet questions about your new baby which you are prompted to answer, as well as the more funny prompts for toddlers and serious questions and prompts for pre-school children. There is more than enough room to answer everything and plenty of space to jot down all the memories you can think of. The book itself comes in a lovely box, which would make an amazing baby shower gift – just add some ribbon and you’re good to go! Unlike other baby books, the Echo Art Bindery’s Baby Book is bound beautifully, with a hard cover which would easily look sweet on any bookshelf.

We highly recommend these gorgeous books for any new parent – this is an ideal gift for a Baby Sprinkle, as even a second or third time parent needs a new baby book! Is someone you love adopting a baby or using a surrogate? These books are a perfect gift, as they will help a new parent remember all of the precious milestones.

You can find Echo Art Bindery on their website, Facebook, and Instagram.

Thanks so much to Echo Art Bindery for making this sponsored post possible.

Books Before Baby: Suggestions From Our Favorite Writers and Bloggers

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Being pregnant can be totally overwhelming, so it helps to have a slew of books to read to help ease all of your fear and anxiety! We reached out to some of our favorite bloggers and writers and asked them what books helped them prepare for pregnancy, baby, and beyond!

Heather Brooker, host of Motherhood in Hollywood Podcast – book recommendation: Baby Day By Day

“Before Chan was born I had no idea what I was doing. My experience with babies was limited to a few babysitting jobs as a teen and that’s it. So I really felt like I needed a book that gave me practical advice on the day-to-day experience of having a baby. So I read “Baby Day by Day” (DK Publishing) which gives a chronological outline of what to expect from day 1 of your baby’s birth. It was written by a panel of pediatricians, child psychologists, nutritionists, and complementary medicine experts, to provide an unbiased approach to baby care that gives the pros and cons of various approaches, including sleep training, managing crying, and breastfeeding issues. I have such an analytical mind and this was a huge source of comfort for me knowing what to expect and how to handle it.”

Also seen: Overcoming Obstacles with Heather Brooker

Ellie Knaus, host of Atomic Moms Podcast – book recommendation: Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown

“I have so many book recommendations based on the dozens of delightful and brilliant parenting experts I have interviewed on Atomic Moms podcast. But the book I would recommend to every single mother is Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown. As a new parent, I felt overextended and overwhelmed. The more I dug into my role as mom, the more it felt like there was zero time for pursuing my goals outside of keeping my baby alive. And that was not a happy place for me to be. This book addresses the pressure that we put on ourselves to do it all and encourages us to get clear about our priorities. Once I was able to get intentional about where I was focusing my limited energy and resources, I could feel less guilty about declining the “non-essential” opportunities or distractions that pop up in the day to day. This book has helped me make decisions much more easily and without the guilt trip. I am more present with my child and more focused on making what matters most to me a reality. Toddlers love saying “no”, and it’s time moms say it more often too.”

Also Seen: Atomic Moms Hot Mama Summer Must Haves

Jordan Reid, author and blogger, Ramshackle Glam – book recommendation: Belly Laughs by Jenny McCarthy

“I read What To Expect and The Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy, of course, but if I’m being honest the book I enjoyed the most was Belly Laughs by Jenny McCarthy. She’s just kind of…a mess. And it was refreshing to hear someone not know what they were doing (I certainly didn’t), while maintaining a sense of humor about it.”

The Gugu Guru Team highly recommends Jordan Reid’s two parenting books – Ramshackle Glam: The New Mom’s Haphazard Guide to (Almost) Having It All and Carrying On: Style, Beauty, Décor (and More) for the Nervous New Mom; as well as Jordan Reid and Erin Williams’ newest creation, The Big Fat Activity Book for Pregnant People

Also seen: Mompreneur Spotlight: Jordan Reid of Ramshackle Glam

Jill Simonian, author and parenting expert – book recommendations: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy and The Happiest Baby on the Block by Dr. Harvey Karp

“The Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy scared the you-know-what out of me — the way it described all the ways women change, not necessarily for the better, during and after pregnancy. I loved the funny and conversational writing style, but my fear of becoming a mom was amplified after reading that book… which was a partial motivator for me to write my own book addressing all the way women get better and more focused after babies (f-a-b) instead of falling apart. The Happiest Baby on the Block — This book was my FAVORITE! It gave me a road-map for taking control of a newborn and gave detailed instructions for how to comfort babies and control crying by swaddling infants in a specific way. Anyone that tells you swaddling doesn’t work to calm a fussy newborn, by they way, did not properly follow the steps and instructions in this book. The how-to details (and science behind the method) in the book were fascinating and effective. I loved it so much that I continue to compliment and ask author Dr. Harvey Karp about it every time I see him now (we often speak at the same Los Angeles events). I even recommended reading Happiest Baby in my own book too — it’s that life-changing.”

The Gugu Guru Team highly recommends Jill Simonian’s book, The Fab Mom’s Guide: How to Get Over the Bump & Bounce Back Fast After Baby; The FAB Mom’s Guide is a unique, must-read for first-time pregnant moms with practical motivation to tackle the ‘bumps’ of new motherhood — because bouncing back after baby is not all about the body. It is a fast-paced, unfiltered telling of personal choices, tactical lifestyle tips and unexpected celebrity lessons to lead first-time moms on a distinctive path to build CONFIDENCE and RESILIENCE (mind, spirit and a little bit of body) from mid-pregnancy through the first year with baby.

Also seen: Mompreneur Spotlight: FAB Mom Jill Simonian

Amandine Liepmann, founder of Mitz Accessories – book recommendation: Bright from the Start: The Simple, Science-Backed Way to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind from Birth to Age 3

“I love this book because it’s all backed by neuroscience and isn’t filled with any sort of parenting guilt/opinions. It’s a very no nonsense approach to what’s worked for child development through studies from around the world.”

Also seen: Gender neural baby style; A Post-Consumer Recycled Baby Registry; Foodie Find, Mitz Children’s Clothing

Paige Wolf, author and activist – book recommendations – The Parent Trip: From High Heels and Parties to Highchairs and Potties and The Second Nine Months: One Woman Tells the REAL Truth About Becoming a Mom. Finally.

The Gugu Guru Team highly recommends Paige’s book, Spit that Out!: The Overly Informed Parent’s Guide to Raising Healthy Kids in the Age of Environmental Guilt

Also seen: Sustainable Nursery: Splurge or Save

Mompreneur Spotlight: FAB Mom Jill Simonian

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Affectionately known on-air and online as ‘The FAB Mom,’ Jill Simonian is the Parenting Lifestyle Expert for CBS Los Angeles news and author of The FAB Mom’s Guide: How to Get Over the Bump & Bounce Back Fast After Baby — a personal, practical and motivating guide with celebrity stories and expert lifestyle tips to boost first-time moms’ mind/body/spirit confidence and capability for that ‘bumpy’ year of new motherhood (F-A-B = Focused After Baby). Jill is a contributor for NBC’s TODAY Show’s Parenting Team and Mom.me and has often appeared on TODAY Show, Hallmark Channel, HLN, KTLA Morning News Los Angeles and more.

Connect with Jill on TheFABMom.com, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

Gugu Guru: How and why did you start FAB MOM? Where did you come up with the name?

Jill Simonian: I wish I could say I was so creative to come up with “The FAB Mom” on my own, but it was literally the ONLY URL that was available for purchase when I first started blogging back in 2010! I remember typing in every possible blog name I could think of and “taken” kept coming up. I finally thought of ‘fab’ (because it was such a buzzword back then) and it turned out to be available… so I took it. I initially thought I’d write about fashion and entertaining after becoming a mom — you know ‘fabulous’ things — but soon found that most of what I was writing about had to do with me trying to stay motivated, creative and focused after having a baby. Turns out, the URL that found me was right on — FAB really does mean ‘focused after babies,’ which is what my new book for first-time moms The FAB Mom’s Guide: How to Get Over the Bump & Bounce Back Fast After Baby is all about. Staying focused and committed to bouncing back from bad days, confused parenting moments and the every day chaos of mom-life is something that we all must cope with and conquer.

GG: How do you balance work and family?

JS: Still trying to figure this one out (lol). Here’s one rule that I’ve learned the hard way this last year: Do not try to be a stay-at-home mom and working-mom at the same time! It sounds crazy, but that’s what I tried to do when I first got my job at CBS Los Angeles news in February 2016. I’d been a work-at-home mom (blogger/brand-ambassador) for years, but failed to realize that starting a new job on television and writing a book at the same time added up to full-time working hours. Sure, the time I could do my work was fairly flexible, but the responsibilities took time away from me being able to volunteer at my girls’ schools, cook dinner every night and organize the house like I used to. Whenever your time gets filled with something, you must account for the time you’ve lost in other areas — we cannot do it all at the same time (that’s not sexist, it’s just common sense). I also learned to do one thing at a time — multi-tasking does NOT work.

GG: What’s the best part about being a “Mompreneur” and running your own business?

JS:I do love the flexibility. Being more available for my kids is also very important to me. I’m a big believer in moms continuing to work after having kids (we need goals and accomplishments too!) but I’m also unwavering in my belief that the mom should be the kids’ primary caregiver. Don’t get me wrong — dads and sitters and grandparents are loved and needed and incredible, but no one can do what ‘mom’ can do when it comes to raising kids and giving them the security, guidance and discipline they need to grow into capable adults.

Mama-to-Be Must-Haves

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With Mother’s Day around the bend (bump?), we didn’t want to forget all of our expectant mamas this week.

The Big Fat Activity Book For Pregnant People, by Jordan Reid and Erin Williams: We’re long-time fans of Ms. Jordan Reid, so when we heard she was writing an activity book for pregnant mamas with her business partner, the brilliant Erin Williams, we knew we had to not only get our hands on the book, but share it with all of you. The Big Fat Activity Book is the must-have book for pregnant millennial moms. It’s a fantastic mix of hilarious puzzles, coloring book pages, and snarky word searches, but also chock full of poignant, moving, and sweet essays. You’re going to laugh, you’re going to cry, and you’ll probably pee a little, but we highly recommend gifting The Big Fat Activity Book to any pregnant mamas you know. [Head to the bottom of the post to win a copy for you AND your BFF!]

skinnytees: If you’re looking for clothing which will easily transition from maternity-wear to everyday wardrobe staples, look no further than skinnytees. Their butter soft shirts are one-size-fits-all (even pregnant mamas!) and are so super stretchy that they will fit your pregnant body, post-partum body and beyond. Their tank tops are perfect for summertime and layering all year round, and their t-shirts and long-sleeved shirts feel like a soft second skin on your new mama body. Plus, they’re ideal for breastfeeding since they can be pulled every which way and not change shape. skinnytees has partnered with Upward Bound House, whose mission is to eliminate homelessness among families with children in Los Angeles by providing housing, support, and advocacy; this Mother’s Day, skinnytees is giving away one skinnytee to a mother in need for every one item purchased from their website until May 9th. They will be hand delivering the skinnytees to the mamas in need for Mother’s Day. [Head to the bottom of the post to win $50 to skinnytees!]

Pearhead Belly Casting Kit: Cherish your special pregnancy journey with Pearhead’s belly casting kit. This non-toxic, 100% baby safe kit includes everything you need to make a mold of your adorable baby bump. This would make such a wonderful Mother’s Day gift for a pregnant mama; have everyone at the baby shower sign the bump! It is 100% baby safe and such a sweet memento of a special time in your life. It may seem as though you’ll be pregnant forever, but trust us, you won’t be, so check out this belly casting kit and cast some memories. [Head to the bottom of the post to win a Peahead Belly Casting Kit!]

Parasol Diapers: One of the most desired baby gifts, which we never give, is always diapers! It’s not really fun to give diapers as a gift, we get it. However, when you’re giving an expectant mom Parasol Diapers, you’re not giving diapers, you’re gifting artwork. The artwork will eventually be shown on your baby’s bottom, but nevertheless, they are gorgeous diapers. These ultra-soft diapers can be ordered in a subscription (now there’s a gift!) so you never have to think twice about heading out for diapers. Parasol Diapers are fragrance free, chlorine free, lotion free, latex free, and hypoallergenic. Furthermore, with the Nordic Swan Eco-label, it certifies that Parasol diapers have fulfilled the most stringent environmental, climate and health criteria available in the industry. [Head to the bottom of the post to win a pack of Parasol Diapers!]

NappieSack: As a pregnant mama, you’re not quite sure what essentials you’re going to need (or not need) when you leave the house with the baby. Luckily, there’s NappieSack! NappieSack is an organizational insert which efficiently transforms any regular handbag into an organized diaper bag. It has 15 pockets, so it holds everything for baby and more. Plus, it’s lightweight and chic, so you could easily use it on its own, too. It’s a great gift for any mom because it lasts long after baby needs diapers; organize your own life with the NappieSack and you’ll never lose your keys again! [Head to the bottom of the post to win a NappieSack!]

Cristina V. Jewelry, Silver Chain Layer Bracelet: It’s not a Mother’s Day gift guide if it doesn’t include some jewelry, and we’re big fans of Cristina V. Cristina, a new mama herself, creates jewelry from the heart; she hand picks every bead, stone, clasp and wire, and creates modern jewelry which is destined to become heirloom pieces. The Silver Chain Layer Bracelet is her most popular one; each bracelet is made up of 2 inches of faceted stones, surrounded on either side by a new signature chain. Bracelets are a wonderful gift for a mom-to-be because she doesn’t have to remove them due to swelling! [Head to the bottom of the post to enter to win a set of 3 chain layer bracelets!]

Bath Bombs, Three Sweet Petites: Three Sweet Petites creates all natural bath and body products. They are created from food-based ingredients- baking soda, citric acid, oils, herbs, flowers, salts, and pure, therapeutic grade essential oils, which means they are safe for everyone. They even offer a New Mama Care Package which consists of one classic Postpartum Bath Bomb and one unbleached, Muslin tea bag filled with our Postpartum Healing Bath Tea. Each item is labeled with the ingredients below as well as instructions for use. The Restore Postpartum Bath Bomb and Tea are a healing herbal blend of Lavender Flower, Red Raspberry Leaf, Plantain Leaf, Yarrow Flower, Calendula Flower, Uva Ursi Leaf, Shepherd’s Purse, and Epsom Salt: ideal for women who have just given birth- vaginally or via cesarean. It may also provide relief from hemorrhoids and other vaginal irritations. This herbal blend is organic and free of dyes and fragrances. What a fantastic gift idea! [Head to the bottom of the post to enter to win a Bath Bomb set!]

Thank you to NappieSack, Pearhead and Three Sweet Petites for making this Sponsored Post possible.

Sustainable Nursery – Save Vs. Splurge

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Having a baby in the age of environmental guilt is a daunting task. You want to buy all the right things to create the safest, healthiest, and most planet-friendly environment for your newborn. But can you afford it? From the author of Spit That Out! The Overly Informed Parent’s Guide to Raising Healthy Kids in the Age of Environmental Guilt, here is Paige Wolf’s advice on when to splurge and how to save.

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SPLURGE: Mattress

With the growing knowledge of phthalates, VOCs, and toxic flame retardants in conventional mattresses, new parents are increasingly interested in organic mattresses for their babies and children. After all, babies and young children spend at least half their time in bed! Unfortunately, without proper knowledge, you might find yourself buying a fake organic mattress. Since greenwashing knows no limits –and no government agency regulates the labeling of mattresses as “organic” or “natural” several companies label their mattresses ‘organic’ when they are technically not. Look for certifications by the Global Organic Textile Standard (GOTS) and GREENGUARD®.

Gugu Recommended: Naturepedic Mattresses

SAVE: Bedding

Organic cotton sheets and pillowcases are more accessible and affordable than ever. Big box stores like Target sell 100% organic cotton bedding for as low as $9.99 for a crib sheet.

Gugu Recommended: Burt’s Bees Organic Crib Sheets

SPLURGE: Crib

Due to changing safety standards, cribs are often not a safe secondhand bet. New crib safety standards took effect in June 2011 and made most cribs sold before that date technically unsafe. And cheap cribs made from pressed wood products such as particle board, plywood and fiberboard (or MDF) typically contain VOCs as well as formaldehyde in the glues and adhesives used to bond the particles together. Though hard wood is more expensive, it’s usually durable, making it a solid investment (bearing of course crib standards don’t change again!)

Gugu Recommended: Micuna Cribs

SAVE: Bed, Dresser, and Other Furnishings

When it comes to other nursery furnishings, secondhand can be a fantastic way to save money and reduce consumption. Parents are constantly selling – and even giving away – gently used furnishings on CraigsList, local parent message boards, and even Buy Nothing Project Facebook Groups. We got our son’s convertible IKEA twin bed for $20 on Craigslist and a beautifully made wooden bed for our daughter for a steal from a neighborhood group. Just keep an eye out for anything too vintage, which could be a lead paint hazard. If you are unsure, pick up a lead testing kit for about $7.

SPLURGE: Paint

This really isn’t too much of a splurge, because no-VOC (volatile organic compound) paint is now available from most major brands with a minimal premium – especially if you are just doing one room. VOC vapors can continue to leak into the air long after the paint is dry, so it’s not something you want a baby or pregnant woman exposed to.

Gugu Recommended: Lullaby Paints

SAVE: Clothing/Layette

I don’t care how precious that designer onesie is. It will get one-to-two wears at best before it is completely destroyed. In fact, you will be lucky if it lasts an hour. Take advantage of your community and accept all the hand-me-downs you can get. While it may not always be organic, hand-me-down clothing that has been washed several times has less residue from dyes and flame retardants. If you don’t have easy access to hand-me-downs from a close family member, explore online community groups where parents offer up gently used clothing for cheap and even for free!

Gugu Recommended: Finn + Emma

Paige is the author of Spit That Out! The Overly Informed Parent’s Guide to Raising Healthy Kids in the Age of Environmental Guilt and the owner of Paige Wolf Media and Public Relations, a B Corporation certified eco-friendly PR firm focused on sustainable clientele. Visit www.spitthatoutthebook.com for her blog on making green living practical, manageable, and affordable.

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